
I read this awesome book several years ago, long before autism entered my life called,
Freakonomics. These two economists statistically look at random stuff in society. One of the things mentioned in the book was baby names. They say that what you name a child can affect what they become later in life. For example, if you name your son "Dennis", he is likely to become a dentist (get it, Dennis and dentist sound alike). I once got pulled over by officer "Speed" and I've heard "Dr. Beaukus" is one of the best plastic surgeons if you want a nose job. All according to these authors, is no coincidence. What IS a coincidence is that I had only one dream for my son, and that is to be typical. How fitting that the first two letters of that word spell Ty.
I have been subbing at my son's preschool all week. Not in his class, but in a neighboring room. The window to my classroom overlooks the playground. I've been able to witness him playing, socializing, laughing, and having a great time with his friends. I could see him having snack time outside, eating lunch outside, walking in the hallway, doing projects in his classroom... You know what I saw? Typical Ty. The only real issue this kid still has is language fluency. He just can't spit out a sentence with ease like other kids his age. He's four; we have time and we have patience. Better than that, I have a child with the determination and will of steel. I honestly believe he will become anything he wants to be.....regardless of what he has been named.